They dont want you to know how much they are against the idea, but they dont want kids either. This would give you a better avenue to finding out his motives. Follow each of the signs above to find out if he is ready. And how to make the babys formula? You can get a good idea about how your man feels about having a baby by witnessing his reaction when he is around them. When your man keeps telling you that the condom tore, it may be time for you to get a little observant. In fact, you never noticed his intentions until recently. In this stage, the couples bond is at its peak, and everything seems exciting. He might've meant that he's excited to be your husband and the father of your children in the future. As someone you genuinely want and need to have around. By timing your sex according to your menstrual cycle around your ovulating period, it looks like he is hoping for a happy accident. //