All lab test perfect once i rule out no heart issues from cardiologist as already have been been by my dr but i have to be certain. Without focussing on God's promises, I find it hard to see light at the end of this menopausal tunnel. I also have been fighting migraines, so painful they cause vomiting. also another symptom of perimenopause is obtrusive thoughts with no factual basis. We should have (when COVID is over) a national menopause convention like in Las Vegas. it was prescribed me for palpitations but i felt even sicker taking it . Omg I thought I was dying, tight chest. Thank you again for responding!. i've had numerous tests done as well, but I still get all these aches and pains, which lead me to think the worse. Our website is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Thanks! I have never had children but if i had id try to give them a heads up. I know exactly what you mean! It started a month ago. Looking forward to a couple of days off over Christmas. But since this anxiety I am feeling very lonely and scared. Stretching and walking seems to help. I read your post and I have the same EXACT symptoms.the nausea is awful. However, regularly feeling misunderstood can be a sign of a need to work on communication skills. These feelings statements are a powerful communication tool. I am there with you. its putting me into depression, Hi Becky, I'm exactly the same don't feel right and when I wake up you don't feel you either people say it will get better and that's my only hope..I'm glad you are feeling better it's so hard. In the beginning, palpitation episodes, unwellness, digestive issues were frequent. My period also stopped last July, I felt alot better those months without a period, then it came back in January until March and my symptoms started again but not so bad first and second period, in March I started to get hot flashes and a period too. Sherri, as I was reading your post, I had to stop and look up it was not one I wrote. So the feeling of sadness is actually scaring me. But it feels like we lose all control. Then I was off balance at times. I ache all over as well and have had so many stomach issues. im new here and cant figure out how to use this forum properly but i have the shoulder blade pain which caused me to have neck surgery to get rid of it. Couples who are in conflict often find themselves blaming one another for the problems they are facing. Fear to be alone and hard to be with my husband too. Sleep is a new concern, when my meds always handled that before (mostly why I'm on them in the first place) and I feel all alone. How are you doing darlin. If it's not one thing it's another! Starts off with a headache and nausea like morning sickness! this seriously needs to stop. I come on this forum from time to time when i get scared thoughseeing you mention the rib pain will help me sleep a bit tonight - thank you . I don't have headaches, a little congested but I don't think it's allergies. I have had it for YEARS (and I mean YEARS) so if THAT was anything, I would be dead by now! Good for a few weeks and it would come back for a week +. I have never been a "moaner". I feel your pain, you have my sympathy and hope that by telling my tale, you know that there are other women out there going through the same thing. Can things get any worse? Im going to talk to the menopause expert at the doctors office about it. Sorry for the rant , hi, are your periods still regular? We will get through this together/apart and I can't tell you (to the moderators) how much I personally appreciate this forum.It has some nights made the difference of me going to sleep with peace of mind I am not alone! Waking up after 3 hrs of sleep in complete panic. Just a suggestion. dissapointed on the ulcer however as thought would be/provide remedy for resolve. The technical storage or access is strictly necessary for the legitimate purpose of enabling the use of a specific service explicitly requested by the subscriber or user, or for the sole purpose of carrying out the transmission of a communication over an electronic communications network. I have this weird bladder pressure but i dont think its Interstatial Cystitis because i dont have any pain, thank God! Don't really bother me but do any of you ladies have this awful nausea? I feel like i always have some kind of physical problem and it's giving me major health anxiety. God bless . I too feel like I'm slowly dying. Steven Gans, MD is board-certified in psychiatry and is an active supervisor, teacher, and mentor at Massachusetts General Hospital. Upgrade to Patient Pro Medical Professional? I had an ice-cream bar the other night right before I went to bed and HOLY HELL! i exhaust myself worrying all the time. How are you doing? What a difference a pronoun makes: i/we versus you/me and worried couples perceptions of their interaction quality. I don't get any pain either with this, and before I never got pain with IC . Peri and meno didn't get me, postmeno is what's killing me. WHY did I say that? I also feel nervous and jittery. Doctors didnt have a clue so i googled and next thing i had all these weird, crazy diseases.. You mentioned you had pressure. 2023 Dotdash Media, Inc. All rights reserved. It will be 3 years in December since my last period. By clicking Accept All Cookies, you agree to the storing of cookies on your device to enhance site navigation, analyze site usage, and assist in our marketing efforts. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. This of course made me very cranky. Hi, I've developed this anxiety this year about fear I'm dying. I am 53, 3 years no period and at first I was like "this is a piece of cake". And we wonder why we are all getting health anxiety! I have a lot of anxiety over it! She practices in Washington state and im in Virginia so i have to watch her on YouTube. Running can also help you to better concentrate. I so hate that this happening!!! vaginal flatulence! I also have low back pain but I have 3 facet joints in my lower back that are shot so the back pain (I think) is explained. usually i am a really positive person but lately it is hard to be positive. 'I feel' statements can be contrasted with 'you' statements, which are more confrontational and place the blame directly on the listener. This might involve a person saying something like, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends. Strangely sad, too. I would like to be invited to be with you, even if you are with your friends.". Used correctly, they can remove an accusatory tone in the speaker's statements and allow people to express their point without getting a defensive reaction. doi:10.7717/peerj.4831, Biesen JN, Schooler DE, Smith DA. All rights reserved. I am hoping its vaginal atrophy or stress b ecause i can deal with that a lot easier because it is reversible. I feel tired and joint pain. No one told me about the weird anxiety, vertigo and digestive issues. It comes and goes and I cont plans my life because of this nausea. I don't own this song. Is this normal or am I just losing my mind cuz it sure feels like it! Hi Leisa: im now about 2 weeks post. Although i hate that other women are suffering, at least i know im not imagining these issues. Ill use Gynetrof moisturizer the otger nights that im not using Premarin. i also take a variety of supplements- calcium, b, d, probiotic, etc and my husband is thinking i'm a hypochondriac! growing physically and menatlly very tired. I'm now in battle to keep weight on. I hope this works, too soon to tell right now. I've been to the doctors office twice regarding this. earlier this year I had a terrible panic attack. I have these symptoms and more and still have periods, but I hold hope and I truly believe what we eat/consume has a lot to do with it and also our need to look after our own mental health during this process. If you look around at other posts, you will see that most women that post have had tons of medical management of symptoms done, lots of tests, blood work, treatments that have shown nothing because peri is so misunderstood. Patient is a UK registered trade mark. Now we have COVID! I wish you well with everything and hope these symptoms will be a thing of the past for all of us. It does not burn when I pee and this too comes and goes. Got a call from the DR to get bloods done on liver all fine. I have also had the urinary issues, mine lasted for about 8 months and seem to have tapered off just as some of my other peri symptoms have acted up again. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. For example, a person might say, "I feel angrywhen I am alone and you are out with your friends.". yes I'm the same. feeling scared and depressed..hope things will get better for everyone soon! Karen, on the other hand, was more likely to receive a response that focused on reducing her frustration level. Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. have had periods off/on during course of last 3 years --- during which hospitalized twice for extreme nausea, dry heaving and dehydration. sometimes i dont want to be alone and then all i want is to be alone . VERY scary. and Privacy Policy and steps will be taken to remove posts identified I also have developed a health anxiety. Looking back now, these bouts of nausea had me scared to death (yep, Googled every type of cancer under the sun and thought I had every one of them!) 'I feel' statements are a way of communicating the speaker's feelings or beliefs. so sick of the bloating, sickness and flatulence! I did need to start taking medication, but I don't want to be on it. This can often help the person who is receiving the feedback feel less criticized and more open to making changes. I dont want to use HRT. I apparently have fatty liver but ALP levels arent singularly raised. i too get muscle tremors around my body, hot flashes and twitches or zapping feeling or skin crawling and the bloating and vaginal flatulence at times. I'm here for you if you need to talk, Hi Viola, I was afraid this thread was dead since the last entry was 6 weeks ago but still wanted to give it a shot. I'm having the same problems with my liver.My Alp is 150 and I'm getting test done next week and google has scared the crap out of me. Hello Sasical hope this email finds you well . Started with of course the hot flashes. I hope you feel better but at least you know you aren't alone. Consigue EVOLUTION en:iTunes: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionApple Music: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionamSpotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionspo Google. Loss of appetite, feelings of doom. I'm very thankful for your post because now I know I'm not alone. Hopefully it's the end of my period as I'm 53. Consigue EVOLUTION en:iTunes: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionApple Music: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionamSpotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutionspo Google Play: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutiongp Deezer: http://smarturl.it/cd9evolutiondzSigue la lista oficial de CD9 en Spotify: http://smarturl.it/cd9chillinConecta con CD9:Sitio: http://cd9.mx Twitter: http://twitter.com/somoscd9 Facebook: http://facebook.com/somoscd9 Instagram: http://instagram.com/somoscd9 2016 SONY MUSIC ENTERTAINMENT (MEXICO), S.A. DE C.V. I have horrible health Anxiety been to the emergency room three times the last two years a month ago which was just recently they didnt do a ton of test but they just said you have anxiety but I just dont think anxiety causes this much pain but maybe it does!!! I've tried my hardest not to Google symptoms because of course everything points to cancer (my biggest fear). All the best x. We want the forums to be a useful resource for our users but it is important to remember that the forums are I am 54 and don't want to go onto HRT hoping things will start to ease now I have gone for a year without a period, wishful thinking! (Peri)menopause seems to fit. It lasted for about 6 months and then new symptoms took over and the bladder issues went away. Always seems to be one thing after the other, water infections a few months back were awfulI also fall into the trap of googling.. One common pitfall when using "I feel' statements is to use them as a way to express a judgment or assign blame to the other person. Gottman JM, Silver N.The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work. This strategy can also help couples begin to build greater empathy for one another. My worst symptom is health anxiety. This defeats the goal of using feeling statements. I am so sorry I just seen this. Gross as they are, I was relieve that was all it was. Very scared. By using "I feel" statements, couples can focus their communication on what they are feeling rather than assigning blame and making their arguments worse. Its Feb 5 now and on April 15 it will be my one full year without a period. im with you getting down and seeking God is the only thing i need too God is in control of our health . I still wasn't happy and wanted it investigated further and had a fibroscan done. My kids are grown and gone as well..i do feel lonely and the few friends I have they don't have it as bad as us so they don't understand..like you im seating here constantly worrying. These are my symptoms, and the past 10 days have been the worstHowever in under a month I would have reached a year without a period. Hi l am the same postmenopausal 4 years had negative smear in july one week later all menopause symptoms back with a vengance fear of death constantly panic hot sweats depression had to start ads citalopram 20 been taking for 6 weeks hope it will work cant carry on like this .Keep well ladies. hi just ready all glory to god , bit I'm in a constant battle everyday I have some many things that's physical wrong with me , for aches pains to cramps tingling numbing surges of pain in bust hip aches groin pains back aches, stiff neck back of head shoulders weird headaches , light-headedness sometimes like I'm just floating ,it's a daily constant battle, I went through some really dark times in my mind and tried hrt but think that caused more light-headedness palpitations dropping in BP heart rate , had ecg done that's OK so just stopped taking it , but still constant feel ill daily , and now I have been called back for further testing following a mammogram, so I am all over the show , then I have to get down and seek God, because that's all I can do . While there is no guarantee that the other person will respond in a receptive way, using feeling statements can minimize the risk that the conversation will devolve into hostility and argumentativeness. Im so glad I'm not alone. I am always telling my husband i don't want to be alone. I seen your post and it sounds like me. Still have anxiety through the roof. I don't understand how hormones can do this to a person. To provide the best experiences, we use technologies like cookies to store and/or access device information. In early 50's (appears to be late menopause as still in Peri) no period since mid-December. These I-statements should state how the speaker is feeling, connect it to an issue, and offer a possible solution. Then the rush of adrenaline.. plus panic attacks in between. I wouldn't say I'm 100% cured because I still have some issues now and again but I am so much better. I'm home tonight, when I should be out, because one minute I feel nauseous then I feel like I need eat but then end up running to the bathroom.It just makes me want to stay home and not have a life. I have been hit hard!! Then the nausea which would come in waves. Muscle twitches in calves and feet. I-messages can vary in terms of how they are formed and utilized, and they don't necessarily need to begin with the words, "I feel." my nausea was about once a month for over a year. So I completely get where you are coming from. ScarlxrdPSYCHX 2022 Kordhell x ScarlxrdReleased on: 2022-10-28Producer: KordhellAuto. Synonyms for I Feel (other words and phrases for I Feel). Hope to hear back from you to see if you ever dealt with the reflux and difficulty burping. Rather than leading with criticism, it focuses the conversation on how the speaker feels about it. My problem now is the pain between shoulder blades and moving to the front. It's consuming my life as it's all I think about. I feel so connected to you all..will be 51 this April and in constant turmoilI'm also on propranolol for a anxiety.. But it's one of the perimenopause symptoms some of us experience as I speak to other women going thru perimenopause and some have talked about this kind of symptoms. I feel nauseous rather flu-like, have the anxiety especially health anxiety, muscular aches and pains, digestive issues, and the weirdest bladder symptoms ever. When one person is communicating in a way that is non-confrontational and emotion-focused, the listeners are more likely to match their own responses to that of the speaker. If i start bleeding again, please God no, i dont want to have to guess uf its the HRT or if im still in perimenopause and not menopausal yet. 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